So, tonight is our 9 month LIDiversary. On the one hand, I'm happy...after all, we're nine months closer to "Little Maple". On the other hand, it's bringing up a bit of the feelings I had around my infertility. Yes, we're nine months in...but something should 'happen' at nine months. I know, I need to get out of that mindset, but tonight is the first time during the entire process that I'm feeling it.
I guess I just need to vent a little tonight and get this out, perhaps after I hit 'publish post' I'll feel a little better...perhaps not.
23 comments:
I felt like it.
I get it. For those who are pg, they have their baby at this point. This whole wait sucks.
I get it too...At least it would be good to know if you were through the first trimester...WHAT is the end point??
Vent away!!
I never wanted to be pregnant and 9 months is STILL hard. There is definitely and expectation. Happy Cake anyway!
Felt it...feel it...it continues.
Sorry to hear you are feeling down! It is normal so you are not alone!
A Big hugs to you!
Little Miss Ladybird
Happy nine! Yes, I officially felt overdue at that point too.
At least with pregnancy you have a due date...sorry you are feeling like this...
Yep. Totally.
Sorry, sweetie. It sucks. Wish I could make it better. Stay positive. Can't wait to meet you in August!
I know exactley how you are feeling. It really started to hit me 2 weeks ago once we hit the 9 months too. Just take it day by day, some days will be great some are not so great!
I am sorry Rhonda.
Happy 9 months LID!
Sorry you're down.
Happy 9 months closer to "little maple".
Congratulations on your LIDversary. Any day that can be celebrated with cake has got to be good.
It wasn't too bad at the 9 month mark for me. It's today at the 10 month mark that I feel OVER DUE. I know everyone here knows what it feels like.
I really hope that you feel better soon.
You are definitely allowed to have your low moments, and lord only knows that this will not be the last one (hate to tell you)...this is not an easy process to go through!!
Hugs to you. Hope today is a bit better.
Donna
9 months closer....
I think I can, I think I can, I think I can...
I'm there -- this sucks. Hang in there!
Cari
Vent away,we are all hear to listen,this is why we all need each other...on the 19th will be 18 months for us...each month we feel like we are that much closer to our lid however we also feel we keep getting that much further away from our referral...all we can do is X off a month at a time on our calenders,keep shopping and stalking everyone elses blogs!!!!
Tomorrow will be a new day...keep that chin up girl!!!!
((Big Hugs from NB))
Wow. You just made me realize that today was supposed to be my due date :(
Hang tough sister, I feel your pain.
I'm sorry sister, I didn't even wish you a happy 9th lidaversary... I personally think you're halfway there - let's take bets and see if I'm right :)
Hmmm... I'll bet you a brand new shiny housecoat ;)
Happy 9 months - my sympathies that the wait is so long now! Enjoyed your blog.
Christine
*hugs*
Yep
9 months bugged for that reason
but mostly it was the time we were quoted while signing up for China...
either way, shoulda had a kid
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